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Shirley Miller

June 29, 1944 — July 26, 2019

Funeral services will be held on Monday, July 29, 2019 at 2:00 P.M. at First Baptist Church in Delaware,
Oklahoma. Interment will follow at the Ball Cemetery in Childers, Oklahoma.
Shirley Mae "Hayes" Miller, 75 passed away July 25, 2019 at Coffeyville Regional Medical Center. Shirley was
born June 29, 1944 in Lindsay, Oklahoma to Lee and Esther "Hand" Hayes. She lived in Lindsay, Oklahoma until
1988 when the oil field took them to several different places. After the death of her husband, she then moved to
South Coffeyville, Oklahoma in 1998 where she lived the remainder of her life.
She married the love of her life Loren Miller on May 20, 1962. Shirley's life was full she enjoyed crafting, painting,
sewing, and enjoyed helping with her Church and family with whatever needed to be done.
Shirley is survived by her sons; Michael Miller and wife Wei of Scotch Plains, New Jersey, David Miller and wife
Misty of Lindsay, Oklahoma. One sister Bobbie Wilson of Nowata, Oklahoma. Her grandchildren Kyle Miller of
Scotch Plains, New Jersey; Tiffani Ray and husband Tyler of Newcastle, Oklahoma; and Breanna Miller of
Lindsay, Oklahoma. One great-grandchild Ainslee Ray, and numerous nieces and nephews and a host of friends.
She was preceded in death by her parents; her husband Loren Miller; and sister Ann Glass.
Arrangements have been entrusted to Benjamin Funeral Service. Online condolences may be left at

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