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Mary Heatley

November 20, 1940 — March 14, 2021


Mary Ann Heatley, 80-year-old resident of Jay, Oklahoma, passed away on March 14, 2021.

Mary was born on November 20, 1940 to Guy and Cynthia (Martino) Loftis. She was united in marriage to the love of her life, Robert Heatley on July 7, 1958.  Mary worked for the Gates company manufacturing fan belts.  She enjoyed quilting, cooking, taking care of her family, working the family dairy farm and spending time with her grandchildren.

She is survived by her husband Robert of the home, two sons: Randy Heatley and wife Lorie of Fairview, Missouri, Greg Heatley and wife Michel of Jay, Oklahoma, five grandchildren: Beau, Kristen, Robert “Luke”, Jennifer, and Suzanne, and thirteen great grandchildren.  Mary is also survived by her brother Jerry Loftis and her sister Mozelle Ritter both of Jay, Oklahoma. She was preceded in death by her parents and a sister Pansey Schneider.

An open visitation will be held from 8:00 am – 5:00 pm, Wednesday, March 17, 2021 at Worley-Luginbuel Funeral Home Chapel in Grove, Oklahoma. Graveside services will be held at 1:00 PM, Thursday, March 18, 2021 at Mt. Hermon Cemetery in Jay, Oklahoma with Pastor Sean Worley officiating.  Honoring Mary’s life serving as honorary casket bearers will be Beau Heatley, Robert “Luke” Heatley, Jerry Ritter, Jeff Gordon, Brad Martineau and Mark Martineau.

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Graveside Service

Thursday, March 18, 2021

Starts at 1:00 pm (Eastern time)

Mt. Hermon Cemetery, Jay, Oklahoma


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